Since you don't plan on doing any overclocking, you may want to skip out on getting the Arctic Cooling Freezer 7 Pro. The Intel chip comes with a heatsink (can't speak to how they perform off hand) but it should suffice for everyday operation. Ram wise, get a 2x2GB set, they are a little easier on a system to run than 4x1GB. Link has ram by same manufacturer for less (has a rebate on top of it) to save some $ there too.
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