This is the proverbial "more than it seems" question. It isn't as straightforward as it seems, and as such, no straightforward answer will do.
I'll give my 20 cents, despite no-one asking me to do so
On one side of the fence we have the evolutionists. Life on Earth appeared from a proverbial soup, full of elements now on the periodic table, which allowed for life to begin as soon as a discharge of energy unbalanced things. Earth was just a lucky planet that turned out to be at the right place, at the right time, with exactly the right conditions to develop life. Quite a handful of convenient coincidences, right?
Which brings us to the creationist side of the table. We were all created by a supernatural, omnipresent and omnipotent being, that created us to it's own image. According to this train of thought, we human beings are the only living organisms in the galaxy, made in It's rightful image, with everything else being here just to accommodate us and keep things interesting.
So... this Is a hard subject.
Personally, I believe that we (human beings in general, not humanity, since humanity Doesn't exist) created God, Allah, or whatever we call them, just for the sake of giving ourselves some higher purpose. It really is depressing when you think that there is no reason for you being here other than spreading your genes, that there is actually no higher purpose in your life. God gives us the belief that we actually are important.
Then, there is the not-so-obscure idea of Panspermia (very succinctly, the idea that life on Earth only developed thanks to the arrival of an Extra-terrestrial bacteria or whatnot. This would make us all aliens to the planet Earth, therefore, the question "are we alone" - is answered on it's own.
Now, on to the real answer to the question, i'll just quote Carl Sagan:
"There are 10000 grains in a handful of beach sand. And there are more stars in the Universe than there are grains of sand in all the beaches in the world".
For me, there's just NO WAY that Earth was or is the only planet able to sustain life. And this gets even trickier when we consider that life in other planets doesn't even need to be carbon-based like ours - it could be hydrogen-based, hell, even silicon-based, why not?
Maybe on another planet there are animated motherboards all
to a super powerful biological, silicon-based microprocessor