My mrs is a pussy cat, she is 28 years old and her parents still talk to and treat her like a teenager. We moved recently and admittedly they helped us out with the move and her mum also spent £70 on food shopping for us as well as taxing the Mrs' car for £90.
Now I'm all one for paying back what you owe and in that respect we owed them £160. However prior to this she recently gave her mum a car which she said she would give her £200 for minus the cost of a new exhaust which it needed, so let's say £150 for the car? we haven't received the £150 for the car yet low and behold they have been going on at her for 2 weeks to pay back the £90 for the car tax they paid, conveniently forgetting we haven't received any monies for the car we "sold" them.
I tend not to get involved as they are a close knit family and I am an outsider for all intents and purposes though this had me seething, she hasn't got the balls to speak up to them and say that they hadn't actually paid for the car we "sold" them and was actually willing to pay back the £90 just to keep them happy.
None the less, I'm not one to hold my tongue if I feel I'm being fairly untreated and I sent a text to both of them tonight (considering I had kept out of it completely before now) stating that we appreciate their help the last 2 months and we're more than happy to pay them back what we owe them after factoring in the money for the car we never had
The shit will literally hit the fan tomorrow but I'm glad, my parents used to be the same until I stood up to them as a parent myself and told them to back the fuck out of my business, they have been sweet since, I sense it will take a little longer for the message to sink in with her parents and they won't appreciate that it's me who has spoken up, but at the end of the day she is my partner and we are in a relationship together, so I have just as much right to stick for her and defend my family if I feel that they are being unjustly unfair