So here is the entire order I made:
Processor:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16819117315 (took your advice on the server style processor)
Motherboard:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16813128712 (check compatibility via Gigabyte and the processor is compatible)
Ram:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820233280
Processor fan:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16835103099
OS: Windows 7 pro 64bit
PSU:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16817151088 (reason I went with the SeaSonic X series is they are rated the best. I went with the lowest wattage I could find, which unfortunately was 650W. The 550W SeaSonic G series I was going to use has many mixed reviews with many units crashing)
Blu-ray drive:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16827135247
Hard drive:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820147193 ($50 more for the best 250g SSD drive. Since I have a WD 1tb hard drive laying around, I will use it for my second drive).
Video card:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16814125502 (can I buy a DVI to VGA adapter for this and it will work?) I plan to use the 2 HDMI ports for my business monitors/ customers to watch. I show video for products I sell.
Case:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16811139013
Card reader:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=9SIA12K1045403 (decided to go with an external card reader as either you or Layton recommended, which was a great idea)
Sound card:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Produ...-na-_-na&cm_sp=&AID=10446076&PID=3938566&SID=
Not all but most parts I got from NewEgg ( I trust them).
Total approx: $1550.
I would have bought the best i7, Z87 motherboard, 1000+ PSU, full tower case, possibly 32mb ram and the best ram made, some crazy super fancy processor fan, SSD 500gb and another 1tb SSD, and even higher end video cards, possibly two video cards and run them SLI. I was expecting to pay 2-3K. The current cpu I have was over 3K some 4 years ago that I built. Good news is it lasted and still runs, bad news is it was overkill. I recognize that now. Current build is probably a little overkill also, but I made several changes with the advise given in this thread which all were excellent advise.
Thank you Layton, Vario, and ne6togadno for all the advise, your time and help.