I can not speak for everyone else, i personally joined just like with the Steam group, to represent. Yet i rarely play with them because my goal is to just find a server with people and game, those bunch of people who asked for a server and got it should now have their incentive to play more often, why they are not is not still not my concern. I never said that the server was always empty either, only that when i joined the TPU BF3 server once it was empty, could of been the time i joined, i don't know. So i left the server and searched for a different host, no biggie. Also i tend to have a very passive attitude towards friends/website members playing with each other on game servers as you can probably see.