Updated with re-runs. This is just crazy!
Some news
@cadaveca !
Trying to be organised:
CPU 4400, NB auto (=3900/4100)
RAM auto=3866 (xmp: 18-22-22-42, worse than your kit) Aida: 48000-57400-49500-46.7 3DMark: 9204
2nd run RAM auto: 49100-57300-47600-47.0
RAM 3600 (and trying this: 16-16-16-38) Aida: 46200-55220-4600-50.8 3DMark: 9196
NB 4400= sets itself back to 4100 (as shown in Aida Cache bench) and all results are worse
CPU 4600 NB 4200 Aida: 46000-56500-45300-52.0 3DMark 8900
CPU 4400 NB 4000 RAM manual 3866: 45600-53900-44300-57 ?!
Added finally this
CPU 4400 NB auto RAM manual at 4000 18-19-19-42 (copied from your review Cadaveca
AIDA: 50180 60375 51150 48 3D Mark: 9190
Is this weird or what? Seems that just XMP on auto is the best option.