Did you...set some timings manually according to DRAM Calc's recommendations? tRFC is not supposed to be the same as tRFC2 and tRFC4...
They have a set relationship with each other but generally you can just set tRFC and let the board take care of the rest. Leave the other two on Auto.
For reference (not for comparison, I have Hynix DJR instead of Micron Rev.E like you):
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Hence why I caution about taking DRAM Calc as gospel; for many different reasons, a lot of what it contains should only be considered as a passing suggestion, if that. For example, procODT and the CADBUS settings (Clkdrvstrength, addrcmddrvstrength, etc.) should only be changed if you have trouble booting or achieving stability and have exhausted your other options. Those settings don't really exist on a scale, they either work or don't, and along with some of the minor tertiaries should be left alone if everything's working properly.
Mine always display as [2] and [3]. That's just how the software interprets things. It's not like the DIMM slots are numbered 1/2/3/4 in any motherboard ever anyways, usually A1/B1/A2/B2...
"Read the manual"? Couldn't even be bothered to explain to him why? lmao perhaps take your own advice regarding HWInfo?