Hey I hate you two having to be in that siuation or going at each other. I can't even imagine how stressful it could be, but I do think its great that you two are trying. Don't give up. You lose when you give up. Sorry for some stuff I said but it really won't help if you two argue or whatever at each other. Plus it seemed like you were bashing her which either way wouldn't be right. She's trying just like you are. There was no way we could have paid for the stuff. Mike wanted to but it just didn't work out. We're trying to save $1200 by mid April which is looking grim. If you still need help you'll have to ask him considering he does everything here plus helping with my business and his girls. It never slows down around here. And I must agree NO kids.....they are evil.