I think it is a compability problem i had something similiar with my samsung HD103SJ not detected at Asus m5A97 ( sata3 compability problem had to update HDD firmware ) , some sata2 motherboards have problem with sata3 HDD/SSDs or some sata2 HDD/SSDs have this problem with sata3 motherboards.
Solution is probably updating your motherboard bios .
Edit : Something similiar
http://www.evga.com/forums/tm.aspx?m=1175342&mpage=1
which sata port are you using for SSD ? Intel or Jmicron ? Try intel ports first (google search showed your motherboard also had jmicron sata ports ) , 2 red ports are jmicron / 6 black ports are intel use black intel ports