The question is simple: why?
I've always been fascinated by 3d rendering, and love to be at the forefront trying out the latest, slickest technology and techniques in games, and even tech demo's. I suppose that's quite personal to me. I also find rendering hardware fascinating, and have likely an unhealthy obsession with GPU's in general - being the heart and soul of a gaming machine.
At a lower level, it's immersion, and that of course heavily depends on the games art style, narrative, quality of story and acting etc etc, it has to all come together, but treating my eyes to a high level of visual immersion is a driving force behind video games to me, or I'd be playing board games, or outdoor games, or something I guess. Not that I don't have hobbies outside of gaming, but yeah the visual experience, to me personally, is fairly paramount in video games.
Why are we so obsessed with graphics that we pay huge amounts of money for pretty, but soulless games and remakes of the same game that we already own?
Well I don't personally pay huge amounts for them, in fact I rarely buy a remaster/remake at all unless I was personally invested/nostalgia from the original/s / franchise. Seems like a relatively lower effort way to make money from a capitalist standpoint, new coat of paint, and resell the same content to more people.
Why do we jump at each other's throats when someone appears to have different preferences when it comes to graphical features? Why is it so hard to peacefully coexist?
There's so many iterations and ways this can happen, and a couple that I suppose bother me. I could care less what other people buy, I assume they chose wisely based on their own needs and purchase criteria, and I come quite unstuck when people seek to criticise what I bought, for myself, based on my own buying criteria, just because they wouldn't have bought it. I made the right choice for me, and other peoples choices weren't right for me, it's pretty simple.
I also come unstuck, as you'd know from our interactions, when XYZ rendering techniques come under scrutiny from people who don't/can't use them, I find that to be of little value, and weight my acceptance / value of those comments accordingly. Partly it's also because I prefer to be more positive about things overall, I'd rather offer more gentle and balanced criticism, and also offer up a positive where possible, than play into "XYZ is dogshit / useless / stupid" that seems to happen so often across the web.
Also: when did it all start and how?
For me? as early as I can remember. I literally have core memories as a young child based around graphics cards and game rendering, currently 36 years old. In relation to video gaming and game graphics, I look back on my life very fondly.