to be honest, all my games were smooth, even crysis played lovely at 1680*1050 with 2xaa, it's just annoying that other people do get quite a bit more witht he same gpu, and that i would occasionally drop below 30fps in games like gta4. However i have begrudging come to accept the fact it IS in fact the cpu, although on paper it has the same raw power needed to pump out the frames, something is just plain missing for it to give out the same frames as its am3 socket bretheren. Annoyingly it took going to xp to come tot hat conclusion (silly broken w7 disc, i'll try to get it fixed somehow probably), and meaning i'm going to have to reinstall my games and put up with dx9 for a few weeks
On the bright side, however, it does mean i have about 30%-50% more untapped potential sitting in my gpu that my cpu just can't access, meaning that it will have a nice long lifespan, and you never know, i may just get an i5 or i7 come spring and solve the whole problem, and tbh i think i may be ending up intel for a while now after this, if nothing else for the fact is my cpu is readin 31% usage when it is obviously the bottleneck (i was rattling around the cpu overclock and i was noticing large changes in the 3dmark06 frames earlier, at 2.8ghz i was running about 80-90 in the first few seconds of the first test, and when i can run 3.6Ghz (it seems to be very fussy since i put in the hd5870, swapping speeds regardless of any other variable, even temperature) it runs about 100-110).
it does pain me that amd can't get there own high end processors with ddr2 to work with their high end graphics cards to a standard that is the same as the mid range ddr2 intel offerings.